今天，在一个偶然的机会下遇到一位好久不见的学弟。聊了一番，他问我有没有像一般的人一样，忙着拍拖。我说没有。他说：“你要求太高了。如果你肯降低要求.......”我没等他把话说完，就否认了。我说：“既然明年我都出国深造了，还需要男朋友来干嘛？”他说：“没关系的嘛...”我不愿再讨论此话题，草草地说：“不要啦.....”
他的一番话，让我想了好一整个下午。到底是不是真的，自己的要求太高了？话说回来，想起来也怪，我甚少告诉别人自己对未来伴侣的要求，为什么他会觉得我的要求高呢？是不是我的样子看起来比较像一些要求高的女子？
其实对于一个可成为自己男友的人的要求，我可没什么一定的标准。只希望他能爱我多于我爱他；能给于我自由；与我合得来；懂得体谅与关心；没不良嗜好；不论样貌、不论财富，只要符合所有条件，就已足够。
难道这也算要求高吗？
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My dear girl...i'm going to say this one last time...but before i start...i wanna you think properly whether i have any intention of hurting you before, now or ever in near future?you see...sometimes it would be good to just look close around you instead of far away...sometimes people tend to just care about the present...ignoring the past and future...there's a lot of "sometimes"...you may be sick and tired of it but hey..face it..this is LIFE...and i dare anyone who challenge me...btw...if so...pls do come out something factual before arguing so that it would not waste my time?cut the crap..yenling..i told u countless times...you have to take the risk..every step is a choice..every step you make, everything you do..is a choice..and sadly to sae..it's a risk..whether you realise it or not...accept the fact that this world is not perfect...so there will be ups..and downs...sometimes we may be hurt so deeply...that we fear to look up again...well..you gotta get over it and face the world again...that is L-I-F-E...i'm sure there's a lot of friends who will be there for you...but bear in mind...NO ONE...not even your FAMILY would be able to make the decision for you...the choice is yours...it's your life...face it...or forever live in denial...this applies to what i'm saying here..take it...or leave it...it's ur choice...remember that always...cheers girl...you've my blessings always...
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